In July I was suffering, I had so many painful nodes. Life had changed a lot and I know what effects stress can have on the body but I've had many more stressful times prior, so why this now? I still don't have answers to why the pain, why the tongue was so sore and swollen, why I was reacting to so many things so often. So what did I do after I was doing everything? I started thinking about what it was to be resilient, totally reframing how I'd been feeling. All the pos